Hello Ladies it has been a while hope you all are doing well in these crazy times!
Over this past weekend two of my friends and I had a virtual girls night in effort to continue practicing Social Distancing.
During the laughs, shots and the number or unknows during this time. I posed a questions what are your 5 Non-Negotiables in a partner?
For months I have thought about mine and but never said them or wrote them down as you are supposed to until I said them out loud. Have you thought of yours? After listening to Russell and Ciara’s interview with LaLa last week I really got to thinking about it.
MY FIVE NON-NEGOTIABLES
1. Faith in God – I believe that any successful relationship needs God as the Center. I want a man to pray with pray for and prays for me.
2. Good Communicator – A man that knows how to communicate his feelings. I myself continue to work on my communication skills. Learning how to and when to communicate things to anyone is something I hold high on my priority list. People underestimate saying now is not the time to talk about this especially when mad. Also knowing how to listen when I speak or want to share my feelings means a lot to me.
3. Open Minded – I was born American but my family is Belizean since I tend to date American men I need a man that is open to learning my culture, the food, the music, the way we party etc.
– I Love to try new things I want someone that wants to try them with me.
4. Loving – I have so many Layers I want to find a man to Love all those layer the Good, the Bad, and the Ugly and be proud to show the world that he Loves me!
5. A healed and or healing man. I have spent the last few years working on my self and dealing with my issues and continue to deal and with them
– What Are Your Five Non Negotiables?
– Have you thought about them?
– Have you written them down?
Know who you are. Know what you want. Know what you deserve. And don’t settle for less. – Tony Gaskins
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