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Continue reading →: Should We Release Survival Mode Before Getting Into a Relationship?There’s this idea floating around especially online that a woman only gets to soften once she “has a man to take things off her shoulders.”That her survival mode melts the moment someone steps in to protect her, provide for her, or simply be there. And while the sentiment sounds beautiful,…
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Continue reading →: Why It’s Okay Not to Feel Festive This ChristmasEvery year around this time, there’s supposed to be a shift.The music changes. The lights go up. The spirit feels lighter. But this year… it doesn’t. Everyone I talk to seems to say the same thing: “It doesn’t feel like Christmas.”And honestly, I feel it too. The state of the…
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Continue reading →: Writing Prompt: What is one thing you would change about yourself?My Answer: It’s not a would, it’s a will. One thing I want to actively work on is my conflict response the part of me that shuts down, withdraws emotionally, and avoids the issue altogether. For a long time, this has been a survival tactic. It is how I keep…
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Continue reading →: About Me: Who Am I Beyond My Roles?Hey Luves, it’s been a long time since I’ve posted here. I’ve been trying to grow my social media presence, especially in a world that seems to prefer visual content over long-form reading. We are in the last month of 2025 it feels like it went by so fast, doesn’t…





