Happy Wednesday Loves

Heyyy….

Can you believe it is the 3rd quarter of the year already? I swear it feel like it was just February! It also feels like a long time since I have written a new blog.

Life has been pretty busy lately and probably will be for the rest of the year.

Car Conversations

My daughter recently came to visit for a few days, if you have read some of my older blogs you may know her, and I have had always enjoyed car conversation. Something that started while she was in high school. It was my way of trying to know what was going on in her life in a moment where she couldn’t really go anywhere.

Now she is 22 and the conversations just happen organically even with her living in Los Angeles and me here it still kind of just happens.

During our recent car conversation, we began to talk about True wants vs Wants for looks or shoe.

We began to discuss me finally buying a home and how lately I am not sure that that is what I truly want.

Would I love to own a home one day absolutely but at times I think that maybe it not for me because I don’t want the responsibility. I reflected on how for years now I have been disappointed in myself because of what it looks like to be my age and not own a home. I would beat myself up thinking I was less than for not accomplishing what so many have by my age, never really thinking to myself is that really what you want.

I have always been more focused on how it looks or how it is supposed to be.

I think that a lot of us struggle with this before and definitely more now with social media.

This year I have found myself thinking more about what I truly want and not what it is supposed to be or look like. This is not to say that I don’t want to purchase a home it is definitely on the Life to do list but when I do it will not be because of world timeline.

Conclusion

• Worring about what we don’t have yet takes away from your present moment.
• Everyone’s timeline is not the same
• The journey nor the destination is not one size fits all
• Everything you do on life do with you in mind.
• What is yours will be yours when it is time.

What have you put pressure on yourself to have based on your age or societal standards?

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Until Next

Kieks