Hey Lovelies

This week I decided to change it up from the mostly serious blogs I post and do something fun.

What’s more fun than Sex??!! doing it talking about it thinking about it all sounds good to me lol.

This week I asked a few women some questions about their sexual preferences and experience here are some of their answers:

How often do you need to or prefer to have sex?

“Depends on my mood, and the partner. Sometimes I can go a week without sex. But if you have someone with amazing sex, you want it all the time, chasing that feeling, the orgasm. Your sex drive increases with the right person.“

“Everyday if I am in a relationship.”

“Every week is different some weeks I might want it everyday and others I could go the whole week without I’m lying a week is to long I might do it but I will not be happy lol. I think 3 times a week is good minimum.”

” 3 times a week minimum”

“2 times a week could be more, but it depends.”

Is having an orgasm necessary why or why not? if it is how do you react if it doesn’t happen?

“Yes, it is necessary! If I don’t climax, I’ll be left feeling unsatisfied, wanting more, maybe even finishing myself off! If I don’t climax, I make sure to let my partner know if he doesn’t already and let him finish his duties. (Oral) “

“The goal of sex is to have an orgasm. Lol But I do just enjoy the intimacy of just being close and affectionate.  If it doesn’t happen, we’re doing it again lol”

“Absolutely!! Necessary if a woman says otherwise, she is lying or doesn’t know what it feels like. When I was younger, I would be a bit insulting if it didn’t happen, as a more mature woman I have learned to communicate, my partner knows we are not done until the deed is done. (Oral, vibrator, fingers, rounds) whatever it takes.”

“Yes, because what is making love without a happy ending…when it doesn’t I know I was the one sleepy or tired lol but it happens about 95% in 15 years. “

“Yes of course! Because having an orgasm is the best stress reliever. I use to fake it before when I wasn’t married but now my husband can tell when I don’t and he makes sure I do.”

Giving and Receiving Oral like don’t like explain?

“Love everything about it. I love to give and definitely love to receive.”

“ABSOLUTELY!!! It’s a part of foreplay. Oral sex is the warmup! Shit, I even like it in between positions.”

Receiving it of course Love it! But giving it is another level of pleasure to me I get pleasure out of pleasing my partner with good head.”

“Oral sex is a must … how the hell you still supposed to get wet with the same tilly (penis) year after year decade after decade … thank goodness it’s a million position for his to get desert lol … now I don’t care to return the favor but I’m selfish so lol”

” I like when done right because it’s a great form of foreplay I don’t mind doing it. Kinda, like it don’t Love it. “

Does size matter?

“I love a big peen… but size does not define the quality of sex. I have had blessed men with no technique and short a blessing or two with amazing technique.” but too small I’ll pass I do believe there is someone for everyone though.”

“Size definitely matters. Doesn’t need to be super big but definitely medium size and have some thickness. It matters because let’s face it if I can’t feel it, it’s a problem lol.”

“In my opinion it definitely matters especially when the stroke matches cause if the stroke doesn’t match size don’t matter”

“Yes, it does because an oversized D isn’t enjoyable.”

Could you be with someone you are not sexually compatible with? ( two partners having shared or similar sexual needs, including sexual preferences, turn-ons, and desired frequency)

“I couldn’t no be with anyone I’m not sexually compatible with because sex is a very important part of a relationship and their needs to be chemistry in the bedroom fashoure”

” I don’t think I could be with someone I am not sexually compatible with one or both people will be left unsatisfied and miserable” “If it is a fixable situation then maybe.”

“HARD NO …. like I said same tilly (man) for decades…. it has to match same energy is a must.”

“Yes, if we are compatible in all other areas of our relationship because you can always teach someone how to pleasure you.”

I have to say I enjoyed getting these answers this week I definitely laughed a-lot and learned more some a will use in another blog really soon.

Until then we can keep the conversation going how would you answer the above questions? I cannot wait to read your answers.

Have a great week xo, Kieks